The Difficulty of long distance relationships
The simple fact is this: Unless you live in Russia or Ukraine meeting a Russian or Ukrainian girl is going to involve some form of long distance relationship, which involves hours at a computer emailing each other, speaking on skype or speaking via the website video contact. As your relationship progresses you can also text each other [SMS each other if you are in the USA]
First and foremost this is only a foundation for a relationship, and if you are not willing to travel to the Russian girl’s country then you are not going to achieve anything. You really do need to spend time with Russian girls to really get to know them well, and to learn about them as people, and their culture.
The US and UK governments when talking about K1 Visa applications, or Fiance Visa applications in the UK call this face time. The reality is, you cannot build a relationship over email that will last. Mainly because it is only when you spend time with people on a one to one basis that you learn those little things that either make you smile, or irritated you like crazy. Please do not think for one minute this is a one way street. The Russian Girls will want to discover the same about you. They may be miles from your home, but they still want to know what they are getting themselves into!
Time differences are important to note also. I am very lucky being in the UK, as Elena is only two hours ahead of me at any one time. I often think about this at about 4pm when the day is slow at work, and she is then leaving to go home.
Depending on your location in the world, and your proximity to Russia and Ukraine, you must take into account what time of the night you either will need to be awake yourself to speak to Russian girls, or what time you expect her to be awake.
However the hardest thing with a long distance relationship with a Russian girl is once you have met them, and they are everything you ever dreamed of having in your life, and just being with her makes you happy. This is the hardest time.
You will want to make sure you have a budget ready not only for trips to Russia, or Ukraine, but to pay for her to come to meet you in your home country. This is especially important if you want her to eventually come and live with you. Remember you will be asking this Russian girl to leave her friends, family, and her job for you. This is a lot to ask- so it is only fair that you introduce her to what your life is like back home first.
In summary a long distance relationship with a Russian girl can be quite rewarding, but the truth is she will want it to develop into something much more usually fairly quickly. You will need to first travel to her country. I don’t think it is right to ask her to come to you initially, and I wouldn’t advise it either from your point of view. Some women you see use these websites to get free holidays all over the world. Take a couple of minutes to check their passports, and ask their employment, and you will realize someone else has funded a very nice trip for them- often several trips.
Your main aim should be looking at finding Russian girls you like. Then you should be travelling to date a few of them during a few weeks in their country, and spending time with them together doing ordinary things. You should then be looking at inviting a Russian girl who has become your girlfriend by this point to your country to spend time with you!
From there I leave it in your hands. But rest assured, they joined the website for the same reason you did, so do not expect them to wait around for you to come and visit them for months and months!
Good luck with your search for a Russian Girl, and please leave us a review of the websites you are using.